WRITING: BARAN ALIŞKAN
As the hour and minute hands chase each other, our watches silently warn us to go to the station for the journey. Tick Tock! Passengers settle into their compartments with the excitement of the first day on this road, which is not their first time. Tick Tock! Final preparations are being completed at the starting point. Tick Tock! We hear the officer’s whistle and we start heading towards the final destination on a high-speed journey. Tick Tock! From this moment on, the time, route and destination do not matter much. Because on this journey, every station is a destination for us. We accept sex as a high-speed train ride and experience all the joy of being on the road with every fiber of our cells. Tick Tock!
ROAD MAP
The biggest motivation for this one-on-one journey is maximum pleasure and the final result is that both parties reach orgasm. This familiar end has been happening with similar rules and the same actions since the beginning of history. We want to reshape this route, which has become monotonous, and make it more enjoyable.
It is possible to draw new routes to maximize it. We are drawing a new route by adding the concept of ‘almost’ to this route that follows the coming together of two bodies surrounded by desires. As we reach orgasm, we almost realize the end, turning orgasm into an incomplete and unfinished story. We will call this concept called ‘ruined orgasm’ ‘almost orgasm’ in these lines. This concept comes to our radar as a method of dividing a pleasure into parts and prolonging the pleasure. It turns orgasm into a happy ending that can be experienced over and over again, rather than an outcome. We think we caught your attention with these words. Mute the distracting phone, straighten your posture, and cut off your contact with the outside world for a while. Now, we will draw the possible route of this journey together…
HAPPINESS AT EVERY STOP
Even though two bodies that are in each other’s gravitational field are flowing like enthusiastic rivers, when they decide to get their relationship out of monotony, they should first start by sharing their desires freely.
The couple, who puts almost orgasm on their agenda, can agree to take the limited pleasure provided by the conventional orgasm journey to the next level, immediately after receiving mutual approval and making a decision. The body is stimulated in a full-fledged orgasmic journey; The action will be stopped by stopping, retreating or reducing the tempo. What needs to be taken into consideration at this point is contractions and being able to stop shortly before the result. In this way, the contractions that occur five before orgasm and the feelings at the climax will almost experience orgasm, but will not be able to experience absolute satisfaction because they cannot reach the final result. Of course, we should also point out that the key is to get to know your partner and in the meantime, we will have the chance to get to know them better. Then, you can continue where you left off and apply the same formula with different methods at the next stop. If you remember, we said from the beginning that every stop on this journey is a destination. We continue on our way.
JOURNEY ACROSS THE SUMMITS
A woman who was introduced to incomplete orgasm late stated that she and her partner had difficulty getting used to the concept of ‘ruined orgasm’ when they first discovered it. She adds that they adjust the timing by monitoring their partner’s reactions just before reaching orgasm, thus ensuring a long-lasting experience. On the other hand, a man in his mid-30s identified the concept of ‘near orgasm’ with his partner as a fun escape that they occasionally resort to in their relationships. He says that in this escape practiced by both sides, the side in control at that moment continued the action in a controlling manner. He states that this controlling attitude increases the fun, but limits it only to that moment. In this way, we add to our notes that they expanded the time they spent together. Another woman in her mid-20s is undecided about this act of dividing pleasure into sections that she practices with her partner. Dancing on the edge of ‘near orgasm’ can sometimes be tiring, she says. He adds that although it is often a pleasure not to have a conclusion about what is happening in his body when he is close to reaching climax, he sometimes experiences the sadness of not being able to achieve results. At this point, it is of course possible for the parties to end the break on the way to orgasm with a safe word. After all, no one wants to be unhappy in these special moments when mutual love is declared, right?
Almost orgasm, based on eroticizing the action, aims to save classic actions and special moments that have become monotonous. A dimly lit room decorated with candles, soft jazz music, role play depending on preference, or an effortless night focused entirely on action. Partners use many different methods to make each other sexy and desirable. Discovering new methods for pleasure is definitely included in love. If there are those among us who stay away from innovations, we offer a little friendly advice by saying that having a little fun wouldn’t hurt anyone. Still ‘what makes near orgasm attractive?’ We do not ignore the question. We suggest the attraction of unfinished actions, unfinished stories and never-lived dreams and complete our theory with a small smile. How attractive was the great love that you could not achieve, wasn’t it? Well, do you remember that attempt you gave up on? Yes, it was a very good idea and it would be very successful today. On the other hand, let’s think about the goals you achieved or easily achieved… Isn’t experiencing the absence of some things very effective in appreciating them?
THE ALLure of the unfinished
Let’s take a breather and travel back in time… Just last weekend, the alarm ringing in the sweetest part of sleep must have disturbed all peace. The knock on the door at the most exciting part of the series spoiled the whole atmosphere. Just like these, the phone ringing just before an orgasm that will make you float in the clouds is likely to have the same effect. Perhaps, at the peak of pleasure, the sound of a fight or a baby crying from outside disrupted all concentration. Although it may seem similar to an incomplete orgasm at first glance, none of these possibilities are a successful example. In fact, the answers are impossible to get points from the way they go. Because the ‘almost orgasm’ we are talking about is a controlled break and an act of ‘stopping’ that does not break away from the context. With a good teammate who maintains full concentration and control, almost an orgasm and a spectacular season finale are undoubtedly possible. If you wish, you can even turn this into a low-budget game of thrones. Remember, in the phenomenon series Game of Thrones, everyone was claiming rights on the iron throne and declaring their own kingdom. Giving the bedroom to the iron throne and the so-called reign to each other doesn’t sound bad at all. It’s that simple to be Jon Snow or Daenerys Targeryan, famous for her dragons. Just like these two, your love story can turn into a masterpiece that will last eight seasons. It’s free to try!
LAST STATION
While the hour and minute hands continue to chase and leave the stops behind, we take a break from the journey with a sudden brake. Tick Tock! After completing all the guidance about the road and the journey, we bid farewell to this imaginary train and you, as your engineer. Tick Tock! We remind you once again that this journey has been prepared with special rules for you and its route is in your hands. Tick Tock! We remind you again of the importance of mutual happiness in this enjoyable and borderline journey. Tick Tock! When we look at our watch again, we see that we have reached the end of the time allotted to us. Tick Tock! When you gently lower the compartment curtains, we will be waiting for you far away in other rows. Tick Tock! From now on, we let time and you flow. Tick Tock! Enjoy your journey, almost!