Orgasm Block 4:
Stress
While your partner is hovering behind your ear and touching you softly during sex, your phone may suddenly ring and you may think of work you need to finish. Your mind, which is under stress, cannot rest at peace, and this is the biggest obstacle to having an orgasm. According to experts, adrenaline is the biggest factor preventing orgasm. You must somehow control your stress and highlight your passions. Just as you can manage not to think about sex at work, you can also manage not to think about work in bed. If you are planning to have good sex, turn off your phones. Create a more romantic and erotic atmosphere by illuminating your room with a few candles. You can also try incense that has a stimulating effect.
Orgasm Block 3:
imitate
Many women fake orgasm during sex to make their partners happy. But as long as you fake it, you will never reach the pleasure of real orgasm. Never feel pressured during sex. Make a mental note that you have plenty of time. Don’t think he’ll ask why it’s taking so long. Even if he asks, you don’t need to tell him that you’ve faked it before, just say that you need time. Don’t forget to trigger him from time to time by telling him that he’s going well. If you find yourself constantly faking it, don’t worry because many women do not orgasm with penetral intercourse. Likewise, just having your partner touch you may not bring you to the top. If you have started masturbating, you can also touch yourself while being with him. Moreover, most men like to see this.
Orgasm Block 2:
Your spouse doesn’t make the world go round.
Recognize that some men are not that skilled at giving pleasure to women. In fact, many men, due to their nature, think about themselves and often do not think about their wives. Most women believe that their men will take them to the top. But if you don’t even know your own body, how can you expect this from someone else? First, decide what things you like. Then guide your partner in this direction. Many women derive great pleasure from oral sex. Don’t hesitate to ask him for it. If it doesn’t work, you can visit erotic shops and buy fantasy products to spice up your relationship. After a certain period of time, achieve bilateral harmony and enjoy mutual satisfaction. Despite all this, if you are still not happy with your partner, and of course, if you have the chance, change him.
Orgasm Block 1:
unknown territory
Most women who cannot orgasm during sex do not know their own bodies. Childhood has a big impact on this, too. Because from a young age, touching women’s genital areas has been prohibited and is explained as if it were a bad thing. Even what the word clitoris means is learned after adolescence. However, before having sexual intercourse with your partner, you should get to know your own body and do what you like. First, start by forgetting the prohibitions you have been taught since your childhood. Reading erotic books or watching porn movies will also help you. Start touching yourself with the help of a lubricating cream such as Vaseline. This way, you can discover the points you enjoy. Remember that as a woman, you can orgasm on your own by masturbating. As in many areas of life, learning to orgasm takes time. Moreover, only less than 5 percent of women can orgasm during their first sex. According to experts, it doesn’t matter where, when or for how long you do it; the important thing is to reach the top and stay there. Never put pressure on yourself just because it takes a long time.