While some men are more attractive, some are overshadowed by that energy. So what are the features that make men attractive? What personality traits do women want in a potential partner?
Typically, as a man, you want to feel that the woman respects you, honors you, and desires you sexually. So, what are the situations that will make you more charismatic? Here are 11 features that will make men charismatic…
Here are the 11 personality traits that are most attractive to women:
1. Having a purpose
Most relationship advice will tell you that confidence is an irresistible trait. However, it’s hard to be confident when you’re not aligned with your purpose. Having a purpose means keeping an eye on something that fulfills you and not letting anyone get in the way of that.
This doesn’t mean you should quit your 9-5 and start something that fulfills you. It means planning and investing in the things that fulfill you. What is your passion and how can you start making time for it? Finding your purpose may take time, but it requires being honest with yourself.
2. Honesty
Being unapologetically honest shows confidence and also shows a woman that you have a lot of dignity. Having your own opinion shows a woman that you’re not just trying to impress and please her.
Of course you want to respect him, but you also have to challenge him. When you do this, he understands that you have a sense of pride and commitment to who you are. When you are open to communication and show honesty, you create an emotional connection with a woman.
3. Kindness
It’s very attractive to take pride in the way you treat others. In a woman’s mind, this is a direct reflection of her character and her future respect for him. So, if you’re both out to dinner and you’re being rude to your waiter, that’s a big red flag for us.
4. Intelligence
A woman wants to be able to chat with a man with whom she can exchange and learn from. He wants both you to add something to him and him to add something to you. A woman also likes to show direction, so how open you are to her is very important.
5. Being spontaneous
A man who can keep women on their toes is so exciting. It keeps endorphin levels high and gets a woman excited about what’s to come.
Don’t be afraid to plan something where you two can get an adrenaline rush together. This also shows a great sense of pride and confidence. It presents you as a man who is timid, does not have an insecure mentality, and is very attractive to women. Keep this in mind when you wonder how to keep a relationship interesting.
6. Humor
When a man can make us laugh, we begin to form a special bond with them, and women always want to be around someone who brings happiness to the table. So if you enjoy playful banter, have fun and make sure you’re both participating.
7. Charisma
There is something very attractive about a man who has positive energy and makes you feel happy and optimistic. I hear a woman say “I want what he has” or “Man I feel so good around him. I believe he can be ‘The One’.”
8. Value-oriented
This is huge! A man without goals has no direction. A person without values has no self-discipline. Women lose their appeal when they have to carry the burden of finding out who you are. It’s not his job and it shouldn’t be. So, know this before getting into any healthy relationship!
9. Intention
This can make a huge shift in your dating dynamics. When a woman senses that you’re not desperate to rush so you can be together, she’ll respect that and be even more attracted to you.
This doesn’t mean you come in with a “player” mentality and say, “I don’t need you; I don’t want you; I’m too good.” No, it’s about your willingness to take the time to develop something good for both of you. By doing this you become a leader and women are attracted to a man who can lead!
10. Respect
Men, when it comes to the physical aspect of love and dating, it’s important to take things slow and be respectful in your actions. If you stick with having sex with a woman and show that you want to see where it goes emotionally before jumping into the physical elements too quickly, you’ll score huge points in winning her heart.
11. Stylish
Everyone attracts different people and has their own tastes. So choose your own personal style and make sure you present it in a way that makes you feel confident. Not everyone will want to wear urban chic. You may be a man who loves skiing and doing outdoor activities.